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Learning by Discovery: The World of the Autodidact

Are you one of those people who not only enjoy studying but have crafted their entire existence around learning, research, and finding awe in nearly everything? Do you thrive when learning by discovery over learning by instruction? Me too. That’s …

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Is Ancestral Knowledge The Same As Intuition?

Beliefs and tradition can be a source of comfort and hope. We may adopt rituals and practices from ancient religions or ancestral knowledge to make sense of our current challenges, our environment, our relationships to all within and without. The …

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Students Make the Best Teachers

It’s interesting that we can think we have answers for anyone else because we’re under the illusion we’ve figured it out for ourselves. That’s the first clue we haven’t. Puzzles can be solved, boundaries can be set, theories can be …

12 Tips to Overcome Perfectionism for Writers

I’m embarrassed to share this, but I have 65K words in a Scrivener database and 80 unseen blog post drafts collecting dust in WordPress.  Hiding is painful, yet reasonable excuses are endless. If we don’t challenge these reasons for hoarding …

Let Go of Control: A Brief Visual Meditation

Life is a practice in letting go. To immerse ourselves in the present moment, we must let go of control, and let go of stories that no longer hold true. When we practice letting go without resistance, we allow ourselves …

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Is It Healthy Realism or Crippling Self-Doubt?

People are always saying “trust your intuition,” but how can you tell when it’s self-doubt talking and not your inner wisdom? How do you know if you have a realistic perspective or if fear is keeping you from taking risks? …

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Responsibility vs. Self-Interest

My husband thinks we should be able to take our dog to the dog park and let her run around. I’d love that, but she needs socialization training. She gets overly-excited and jumps on other dogs. She doesn’t pick up …